The last few months have seen many changes in attitude to
ATOS and ESA and to those who claim Incapacity benefit (IB). It seems that
there is still a very large gap in understanding between the people who are
making policy, delivering it and those dealing with the people trying to claim
for the help they need to recover their good mental health. And I think their
lack of understanding was typified for me by the comment I heard many moons ago
when the change over figures from IB to ESA were first reported. When asked why
so many people were fighting the decisions that they were fit for work the man
replied
‘When people are faced with loosing up to £30 a week off
their benefit of course they’re going to fight’
Really!
I do so hope we have moved on from this kind of misunderstanding;
however I fear that we have not, and I fear this because of comments in the
newspapers about the number of people who are attributing suicides to the
decisions to cut benefits. It seems many feel that logic and reason would
prohibit people from killing themselves because they have received an unfair
decision over ESA that would leave them without the higher rate of benefit; but
more importantly the ability to not look for work which they are not capable of
doing. A situation that would ultimately result in them either repeatedly being
given and then losing jobs, or in them being sanctioned and their benefits cut.
Both situations so torturous that it is unlikely that they would not commit
suicide and fighting the decision is just as torturous a journey, as Andy
Worthington and many others have said before. (http://www.andyworthington.co.uk/2011/06/06/brutal-benefit-cuts-for-the-disabled-are-leading-to-suicides-in-the-uk/
)
But it appears that many people do not understand, what to me seems an
obvious thing, that people with severe mental health issues/disabilities will
commit suicide as a result of these decisions. The common person and many, if
not the majority, of government seem quite happy to deny that this is happening
and they quote logic and reason and say things like if you deserve it then you
will be granted it you just have to put your case across as the reasons why it
is not so.
Am I really the only one who thinks that actually they need
a lesson or two in the reasons why people become mental ill and why they remain
so?
Because it seems that just explaining to them that this is
so is not having an impact, people do not believe that people will go to such
lengths and so dismiss the claims without recourse.
So this is my four penneth.
All of the people in this group will have suffered some of emotional/physical
abuse, neglect or abandonment during their childhoods and from the people they
either believed cared for them the most or had those they trusted not believe them.
In many if not all instances they will have believed that they cannot escape it
no matter what they do and it will have been overwhelming for them. They are
extremely unlikely to trust on sight and will often have great difficulties forming
relationships with any trust involved, which is not to say that they don’t have
trusting relationships but that it is extremely hard for them to form them.
They will have very little if any self esteem or confidence
but will almost certainly have found a way to bluff their way through and as a consequence
you may not notice this lack. These people will not fight in any logical manor because ultimately they believe they will not win because they so rarely did as a
child. They may well put up a good fight but far too many will just give in too
easily without putting their case across.
If you push these people too far they will not be
reasonable, or logical or rational and will feel so overwhelmed that they will
harm themselves and quite possibly fatally.
A bleak picture..? yes well that is not all.
I guess my point is that when you have had all your trust obliterated
when you are a child by the people you have to trust, your parents or parental
figures, and feel that you have no way out to the point where you have suffered
so badly that you have become mentally ill to this extent I have no idea how
you expect them to deal with an arbitrary system that says it’s going to help
when the people who were supposed to care the most either did such terrible
things or allowed others to do them to them.
The lessons learned as a child last a life time and these
lessons were learned so well and so thoroughly that rather than seek help from
another person they became mentally ill. I’m not sure how the government thinks
this family is going to help when it made such a bad job of bringing them up
yet it seems they do.
So please consider that the fear of returning to a time
where they felt so overwhelmed and in such pain, where neglect and/or abuse was
commonplace these people will do anything to avoid it include take their own
lives and then ask yourself why you feel the need to put them through a system
that makes them face this fear?
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